I know boys may well experiment sexually, often with their mates, and have no problem with that.
And I was always a tad concerned of any influence he might have on my son as they got older. To be honest, I've always strongly suspected that the mate was gay. They have been friends since childhood, play sports and music together, and sometimes hang out with others, usually girls. My kid looks up to him and doesn't have a great range of friends otherwise. This son's best mate is a lovely guy, whom we know very well. While she's the best in the world, my wife goes into denial about such issues when it comes to her kids. I didn't discuss the issue with my wife in any detail, other than to say that our son was accessing sites that were not appropriate on the computer. I tried to be frank, but not intrusive, and sought to leave leeway for him to talk then or later. I didn't lose my head or express shock or revulsion. I also said that while most boys might be curious and some might be uncertain of their own sexuality, sites like these were not going to be of any assistance to them in looking into these issues. Instead, I stuck with talking about porn sites, how they can be time bombs, how he could unintentionally open up sites that were illegal - meaning child pornography - and end up in very serious trouble. I didn't want to pigeon-hole him and didn't want him to do the same to himself either. I felt very uncomfortable with this episode and deliberately didn't pursue the gay content of the site as such. I asked him did he want to tell me anything and he said no. I asked him about it, but ducked out of mentioning the whole gay thing, hoping that he might open up to me. He was never as streetwise as his brothers, although he has brains to burn and does very well at school. The last one to use the computer was our middle son, then aged 15, but young for his age. It was gay men, going at it, with nothing left to the imagination: toned muscular young men having all kinds of sex with each other. Like most people, we have a computer, and two years ago, I turned it on and the usual list of sites came up, except one, which froze me - more for its bluntness than anything else. We talk and have a bit of fun usually, but no "meaning of life" stuff.
16 YR OLD GAY PORN TV
We sit down almost every evening to a meal around the table, no TV allowed. My wife gave up working outside the home to look after the lads. We're not especially close, in that the kids don't really open up to us - unless there's an explosion, which is very rare indeed. We have our ups and downs, like any family. QI am married - very happily - with three sons, all in their late teens.